Former Moonies cult members are working with families of QAnon believers to help their loved ones get a grip on reality

Former members of the Unification Church are acting as counselors to families of QAnon believers.
Diane Benscoter and Dr. Steven Hassan told Insider there’d been a surge of interest in recent weeks.
While there is no quick fix, experts say there are ways to have open conversations with QAnon believers.
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Diane Benscoter can empathize with many of the QAnon believers who stormed the US Capitol on January 6.As a former member of the Unification Church — a religious cult whose members are commonly known as “the Moonies” —  Benscoter knows what it feels like to be completely fixated on a common belief.”I know about the righteousness you feel when you believe you’re on the right side of history,” Benscoter told Insider. “And the camaraderie you feel with the community you’re a part of.”But while she can relate to the mentality of the Capitol mob that day, Benscoter also knows what it’s like to come out on the other side. 

Read more: Gaia was a wildly popular yoga brand. Now it’s a publicly-traded Netflix rival pushing conspiracy theories while employees fear the CEO is invading their dreams.As a young woman, Benscoter spent five years in the Unification Church but left in 1979 after her increasingly desperate family arranged to have her deprogrammed.Reflecting on this time, Benscoter said she is all too familiar with the “shame and indignation” that a person experiences when they leave a cult.

Followers of the Unification Church attend a ceremony to mark the 2nd anniversary of the church’s founder Reverend Sun Myung Moon’s death in Gapyeong, South Korea, on August 12, 2014.

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This led her to set up a non-profit called Antidote, which runs support groups for people who have been engrossed in cultic ideologies and are trying to reconnect to reality. 

In recent months, and especially since the Capitol riot on January 6, Benscoter has become the last hope for relatives of people lost to the QAnon delusion. According to a recent Ipsos poll, more than 40% of Americans said they believe the deep state, a term used by QAnon and other conspiracy theories, is actively working to undermine Former President Donald Trump. Around 17% of participants said they think that a “group of Satan-worshipping elites who run a child sex ring are trying to control our politics and media” — another core belief of the discredited conspiracy theory. Recent news reports have described how the QAnon conspiracy theory has seeped into all corners of society and as a result, has ripped apart families, devastated friendships, and broken up romantic partners.

Benscoter told Insider that her inbox has been flooded with around 100 new emails a day. Most of them are from concerned family members of QAnon followers who are desperate to build bridges.While there is no quick fix, Benscoter said she is able to give people the tools to “begin to break down barriers … so that they can be more effective in helping their radicalized loved one get to the point where they might consider the possibility that they’ve been taken advantage of or lied to,” she said.One approach Benscoter teaches family members is to speak to their loved ones in a gentle, non-judgmental, and open-minded manner.”You can’t argue facts, because they’ve already come to believe that any source of information outside of what they’re digesting is a lie, and is evil,” Benscoter said. “But if you can have them take a look at the possibility that maybe they were tricked or taken advantage of or lied to, then that’s already a good starting point.”

Founder of Antidote and former Unification Church member, Diane Benscoter.

Diane Benscoter

Another former Moonie, Dr. Steven Hassan, a mental health counselor and author of “The Cult of Trump”, has made educating people about mind control his life’s work after he left the Unification Church in the 1970s.

He told Insider he too has witnessed a dramatic increase of interest in his work ever since QAnon. Like Benscoter, Hassan believes it’s important to not stigmatize those who have fallen prey to disinformation. “The public tends to blame the victim when trying to understand why they get involved with unhealthy cult groups and they believe people are weak or stupid or something’s wrong with them,” said Hassan. “When really, it’s more a case of they were lied to, and were incrementally influenced to adopt certain beliefs and behaviors. And that, in a sense, is not their fault.”Hassan recently launched a hashtag campaign, #IGotOut, which he hopes will make it easier for QAnon followers to seek help.Leaving a cult is by no means easy, he said, but it is possible. For Hassan, a near-fatal car accident caused by his lack of sleep during the cult, is what got him back to reality. While his family also intervened, he was able to see. 

“Family members can help, the media can help, but ultimately, I think people almost always get themselves out of cults. Not because someone’s pushing them, but because they realize with time that it isn’t what they thought it was,” Hassan said.